Fed up! Fed up!

I m just so pissed off! Felt that everything is so F***** up!

I simply dun understand Men at all! Yup, i m refering to my STEWPIG HUSBAND!

As u all know, my home renovation is sponsored by my in laws and they re going to sponsor our most of our furniture & home appliances. I m not being ungrateful but somehow, i hate interference!

Mentioned earlier in my post, my in laws had been nagging at us to install window grilles so as to prevent spidermen or ninjas thieves from breaking into my home. Guess what, when i went to my sis-in-law's place, no window grilles was installed even though she stayed on the 11th floor and with 2 mischievous toddlers hanging around! So, i told my stewpig husband that there is really no need to install. He told me that we should compromise by just installing the ones for the kitchen.

I m fine with that. When i called him today to ask him abt the window grilles issue, he told me that he tried to persuade the in laws abt us not installing the window grilles and his parents still insist on us installing. That got me riled up! I told him off coz its our home even though they pay for the renovation... That doesn't give them the right to dictate what we got to do with our home.

Another thing, the wine issue. My wedding banquet venue charges $5++ per bottle for wine corkage. So i did some budgeting for the wine and told him that its better to get quality wine that costs less than $20 per bottle. Stewpig husband is a good drinker and he has friends in the same league as him. He suggested getting wine that costs $25 per bottle. I told him that if we managed to get the wine corkages waived, it okay but not when the wine corkages is not waived. He told me that there's nothing wrong in getting quality wine for his guests and blah blah blah... I m so mad at him! Things that he should spend on, he refused to spend. Like i told him to buy a good quality shirt for the wedding , he refused and yet he 's willing to spend on liquor!

I m so fed up... I dun need ppl to tell me what to do, i dun want to accomodate to ppl's wishes! Its' my home! I want it to look like a pig sty, its my problem!

I just want to do things that i like with no interference! Opinons are not welcomed at all!